Monday, December 22, 2008

Time Heals All Wounds So They Say






They say that time heals all wounds, I guess I need some time, It took over 11 years for the pain to ease after my Father had passed and now with the passing of my Mother, it looks like it going to be along time before I can once again enjoy the holidays and to ease this pain that I carry in my heart!
My Father died in my arms September 26 1995.
My Mother Died in my arms September 18 2008.
I just don't have that kind of time anymore to ease this pain,so Please forgive me if I'm not Joyous over this Christmas season.
My Debbie has been a rock through all of these years and without her , who knows what would've become of me through out these trying times!
God Bless you all during this Christmas Season!
And as always, thanks for listening!

13 comments:

Robin said...

my heart breaks for you... Michael's dad died in his arms years ago and still hurts. Hang in there, keeping you ing prayers.

Sugar said...

i don't think time heals all wounds, it eases them, but never heals them.
i feel for you, as my joyous Christmases stopped when my mother passed in 2002...then when son passed in 2004, it silenced my Christmases.
i still honor Christmas, as for the birth of Christ, but as for having a fun time & celebrating...that stopped a few yrs back.
glad you have debbie there, will keep you in my prayers...

Lisa said...

You don't need to be joyous - you have had a rough year. I wish I could ease your pain, if only for a day. Keeping you in my thoughts & Prayers.
xxx

It's Just Me ~ Katie! said...

I wish there were words to comfort and ease such pain during times such as these. Know that were thinking of you and yours always. Merry Christmas to you my friend,
Katie

Tracy said...

not good at comforting but know your in my thoughts! (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

Paula said...

I think people make too much of holidays. We need to just remember the reason for the season. Believe me I know how you feel but that doesn't make it any less painful for you. I'm so glad you have Debbie with you.

Bethe said...

You have had a rough year this year. It's perfectly normal to greive over again during the holidays. Do rejoice in the loving memories your Mom & Dad left for you, though.

hugs...

Melissa said...

I cannot imagine the heartache you must feel. It is perfectly understandable that you can't feel joyous right now. Don't think that you have to feel anything that you don't. Just let those that love you do what they can to help. If you can't have joy this Christmas I hope you at least have some peace and can feel the love of your parents surrounding you. I believe they are with you.

MISSY said...

It's understandable that you are not going to be happy right now; especially this time of year.

I hope you can find some peace friend.

Missy

Sharlene said...

I'm sorry you are not going to enjoy the holidays and it's very understandable. I'm sending blessings your way!

Missie said...

Sending you some big hugs!

SHOOBIE HUNTER said...

MY DEAREST FRIEND..I ONLY WISH YOU PEACE AT THIS TIME OF YEAR.IT IS SO HARD TO FIND HAPPINESS AND JOY.BUT YOU GOTTA KNOW MOM AND DAD ARE WITH YOU NOW AND ALWAYS IN YOUR HEART..HOLD THEM CLOSE AND EMBRACE THE GOOD MEMORIES..I AM SURE THEY DON'T WANT YOU TO CRY AND BE SAD...BUT YOU MUST FEEL WHAT YOU DO..PEACE AND LIGHT YOUR BUDDY...LUV YA MUCH...

natalie said...

Hang in there Johnny and I do hope that debbie will watch over you.
I am so sorry for your loss , which is huge.
I wish you a great holiday with debbie and I will think about you two
over break.
hugs,natalie